Alcohol
Please refrain from drinking before our meeting, inebriation can be fun, but also can make for a sloppy first impression. In longer sessions we can share a bottle of an unopened beverage of choice. I do not tend to drink much on these occasions as I want clarity to give you my full attention.
Behavior
In all of our correspondence, whether that is in person or through technology I would ask that you use more conservative language and avoid anything vulgar, lewd, sexually explicit or overly descriptive.
New experiences delight me. When we are comfortable with each other we can explore and discuss our desires. Consent and respect of boundaries is an important part of any relationship. Please let me know what you enjoy and what you dislike, and I shall do the same for you.
Discretion
Privacy and safety are my top priorities. All personal information gained in our correspondence is deleted in the physical sense and kept strictly within my own heart and mind. I will not share or divulge any information to parties outside of our arrangement, unless you give me permission to. In that spirit I hope that you would return the same courtesy to me.
If you enjoy writing reviews and our memorable date inspires you, I would only ask that it be a tasteful reflection of our encounter.
I do give Okays on P411 and encourage membership as a way to ensure the safety for everyone.
Donations
The donation is for my time and companionship only, I do not negotiate my rates. Attempts to negotiate will sour the mood and create undo tension.
At the start of our date please leave the consideration in an unsealed envelope, magazine, book or other discrete wrapping on the bathroom counter at the start of our date.
If we are meeting in public please have the donation in a card, book, magazine or any common convenience that wouldn’t raise the interest of onlookers.
Extensions
There may be times that I would be able to extend our time beyond what had been arranged. This would be a case by case basis and the donation would reflect the new length of our time together.
Hygiene
The preparation for our meeting takes time and creates a giddy sense of anticipation. My space will be ready for you as my guest, I will be cleanly showered and well rested so that I can invest all my energies into our meeting. As my guest I hope that you can extend the same courtesy to me. Here are a few guidelines of etiquette that should be followed.
A clean body is a perfect canvas to be explored; if you arrive and do not feel you are as fresh and clean for our encounter I do provide the facilities needed to freshen up. I highly encourage you to wash your hands upon first arrival. I provide mouthwash and mints should you feel a refresh is in order.
Wear clean clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable.
Punctuality
In other realms of life this is an often underappreciated quality. For our appointments please arrive on time, which can include up to 5 minutes early, and be ready to indulge in whatever delights we are destined for. If you are running late please inform me as soon as you are able in the medium we have agreed upon (Text, email, etc). As my time is very limited we may not be able to extend our allotted time together, but it can be assessed on a case by case basis.
If I happen to be running late I shall also be courteous enough to inform you of how much of a delay we may face. The missed time will then be adjusted, granted you happen to be able to accommodate the change.